Have such a dialogue, the old monk asked the young monk: if you calm to be dead, step back is dead, what would you do?
The young monk said without hesitation: I went to nearby.
Yes, the road is not only backward and forward, when the horns of a dilemma, you want to change an Angle, change a life-style.
Has such a story: one is green very beautiful beautiful leaves, in a violent wind, cut down ruthless, poor to float to the ground.
Don't so early to end their lives, and into the mire?
Struggling in the leaves in the fall, thinking, struggling.
Her with the help of the wind to fly, look for opportunities to extend life.
Finally, she stopped at the foot of a young woman, has been picked up girls.
Young girl with appreciation, loving heart, will the leaves made a beautiful bookmark.
Leaves saved the skeleton of the life, from now on and the accompanying text, dependent, and mo life to rebirth.
Yes, there are many ways of life, when the disaster, and you want to change an Angle, change a life-style.
There is such a character: a world-class master in literature, modern literature takes kafka, withdrawn since I was a child, quiet, weak timid, sentimental, always like a person hiding in the corner.
The father he is not satisfied, then completely lose faith to him, just no longer tube he, let him die.
In the eyes of my father, he is an out-and-out coward, a poor no future.
But kafka in father hurt again and again, learn to sense motive, learned to bear and patience, and a sense of pain and helplessness in life.
More shocking is that a pure chance, he to the way of literary creation, he put to the life of sensitive, timid character, lonely melancholy temperament, it is difficult to send the loneliness and a sense of crisis, can't overcome the absurdity and fear, into the novel, form a unique beautiful style, become the spirit of the contemporary capitalist society.
His 'metamorphosis', 'the verdict', 'castle' and other works is famous in the world, enduring, as Austria's most famous writer.
Kafka's successful tell people, some things cannot be changed, for example, personality, appearance, height, etc. , for these inherent defect, there is no need to change it, don't let it upset you and inferiority.
Everyone has their own advantages, but also has its own defects, instead of complaining about god unfair to oneself, not to find a suitable for their land.
Yes, life each have each good, when the disadvantages have been unable to change, you want to change an Angle, change a life-style.
There are numerous realistic examples: seems to be the life weak one, after hardship, trails in college entrance examination, the job was rejected, hit a wall around a series of failed, finally to become the strong of life, success in the life, the beauty of life.
Yes, a lot of way of life, the current can't walk the road, you need to know the bend, change an Angle, change a life-style.
Years passed, 'life is not perfect is the norm, and perfection is abnormal', in the face of setbacks, as long as from another Angle to think, to observe, you will find, live shows, are not usually feel so Yin li all over the sky, so no hope;
As long as the eye can across the barriers, the heart can put down the moment, open field of vision, change ideas, lifestyle changes, miserable life will back again, again pain will smooth and steady life.
Because will also be a change in your life, and wonderful!